Meghan is a mom to boys who is PR Friendly. She has been blogging for over 15 years.
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Show of hands...who has read The Help by Kathryn Stockett.
I have & I loved. Probably the best book I've read in a long time.
This is Kathryn's first novel & Hollywood is making it into a movie. HOLLA!
For those that aren't familiar with this novel take a peek at the synopsis for the movie:
Based on one of the most talked about books in years and a #1 New York Times best-selling phenomenon, “The Help” stars Emma Stone (“Easy A”) as Skeeter, Academy Award®–nominated Viola Davis (“Doubt”) as Aibileen and Octavia Spencer as Minny—three very different, extraordinary women in Mississippi during the 1960s, who build an unlikely friendship around a secret writing project that breaks societal rules and puts them all at risk. From their improbable alliance a remarkable sisterhood emerges, instilling all of them with the courage to transcend the lines that define them, and the realization that sometimes those lines are made to be crossed—even if it means bringing everyone in town face-to-face with the changing times.
Deeply moving, filled with poignancy, humor and hope, “The Help” is a timeless and universal story about the ability to create change.
Based on one of the most talked about books in years and a #1 New York Times best-selling phenomenon, “The Help” is a provocative and inspiring look at what happens when a southern town’s unspoken code of rules and behavior is shattered by three courageous women who strike up an unlikely friendship.
The movie is due out August 12th. You can bet your sweet bippy that I'll be there.
Who could miss it with costumes & actors like this:
The cast includes: Viola Davis, Bryce Dallas Howard, Octavia Spencer, Emma Stone
Top notch actors who are at the top of their craft.
So tell me, are you looking forward to seeing the movie? Have you read the book?
When did the 17yo boy become muscular? And that handsome?
Really. Yesterday he was 12 years & meeting his new little brother for the first time. He's like 6ft tall now. We see eye to eye. He's taking his driving test next week.
Lord help us all. Nah, he's a really good driver. He has to be with Bobster as a father. The man obeys every traffic law. Even 25 in a 25 when there is no one around. Sometimes I'm like "You know Bobster, there's a pedal in the mini van, we don't Flinstone it"
Of course, I have a heavy foot. I mean, sometimes it just feels like you aren't going that fast. Plus one has to keep up with traffic.
Anywho, TimBob up there has gone to the jr prom, the freshman-sopmore shindig & was recently invited to the senior prom. Turned down the invitation tho. Isn't he just a little Rico Suave?
Remember Rico Suave? If you do, great. If you don't have any idea who I am talking about then you are very, very young. Go You Tube it. You won't be disappointed.
This morning I decided to use my crock pot for good, not evil (I.e. allowing the mouse we have to poop in the lid since I keep it in the pantry...keeping it real folks, keeping it real).
I decided I'd make Hawaiian Chicken. Sounded yummy. Got the recipe from a very popular blog that has published two cookbooks. It was sure to be tasty.
Turned on the crock pot when I left...7am. Turned it off when I got home...6pm.
This may have been a bit long.
The only ingredients besides the chicken was cinnamon, pineapples & red paper flakes. How bad could it have turned out?
Well when I removed the lid, I swear I heard the chicken gasp "Water...need water!"
Dry is an understatement. I served it on some rice with a side of broccoli.
Cheeks tried it & his face was priceless. He received a grilled cheese.
I tried it & choked. Think I get the piece with all the red pepper flakes. I had a Dr. Oetker's frozen pizza. Good move on my part as it was tasty.
Bobster was a trooper & took one for the team. He ate it &
Is taking the rest for lunch tomorrow. He thinks I am trying to kill him with my concotions BUT Come on, living with me would bring him a slow, painful death. I am the master of torture so live on Bobster, live on.
Would I make this chicken again? Probably not. At least not this recipe.
What I want to know is what epic fail did you have with a recipe disaster?
What did we do you ask? Chinese auction baby!!!! 600 women let loose in a high school gymnasium to throw their tickets in boxes for a chance to win a gift basket. The baskets ranged from baby stuff to gift cards for the movies or out for dinner.
Holla!
They also had door prizes. I won one. A lovely window box with fresh parsley, basil & chives in it. I'm giving it to the Nana because let's face it, I'm lucky I keep my family alive, I shouldn't be trusted with herbs.
Now we have all seen this photo:
Apparently, people have complained. Says it's not up to date.
Pashaw.
I mean is the big bow & big hair only from the 80's? Whatever.
Anyway, feast your eyes on this baby....
23 years later peeps. We still look 17.
Right? Right?
*chirp**chirp**chirp*
That was taken Saturday night at the shindig. It was nice. She is also the woman who introduced me to Bobster. I love her, known her since we were 14. Will always be one of my bff's.
Ok, enough sappy sap.
Sunday, the family went to a Philadelphia Wings game. You know, lacrosse.
Loved it. Best part was when they beat each other up. Bring on the violence!
It really is a fun game. I wanted to play in high school but we didn't have a lacrosse team. There are adult leagues now but they do not have emergency services at the games nor do they supply with you oxygen. Something about the leagues wanting you to be in shape to play.
Yea, whatev!
So tell me how was your weekend? What did you do?
Better yet, are you still friends with someone with high school?
I've mentioned before that Bobster & I have a Top 10 list.
You know, the list of people who are considered freebies & your significant other can't say anything to you if you choose to go out to dinner or ahem, something else, with the person on your list.
I've done a post about my top 2 on my list, Chad Kroger of Nickelback & Kid Rock.
I'd link but I can't find the darn post.
Plus I removed Kid Rock.
He needs to shower more.
Digress.
Tonight I wanna talk about one who is on my list that just doesn't get a lot of attention.
Who you ask?
Take a gander:
Mr.Jason Lee.
You know of My Name is Earl, Alvin & The Chipmunks, Underdog. I first started to adore him in Mall Rats. He was so likable. So cute. Endearing.
Then he did Dogma. Well I am not a fan of the movie at all but he just warmed my heart.
Now don't get me wrong, I prefer him cleaned up.
Not My Name is Earl style.
There is just something about him that gets my jets going.
A. Age: 40 B. Bed size: Queen C. Chore you dislike: Cleaning the bathroom.
D. Dogs: None
E. Essential start to your day: Diet Wild Cherry Pepsi
F. Favorite color: PINK G. Gold or silver: Silver
H. Height: 6ft
I. Instruments you play: I have no musically ability at all. Sad really. More like pathetic J. Job title: Mommy, Chauffer, Maid, Cook, Customer Svc Rep
K. Kids: 3 boys and one large man child L. Live for: my boys.
M. Most embarrassing moment: Can't say...too embarrasing N. Nicknames: Schmeggy O. Overnight hospital stays: Pregnancy, ulcer from complications of gall bladder surgery P. Pet peeves: Cutting chip bags...DRIVES ME BONKERS! Q. Quote from a movie: "Does Barry Manilow know you raid his wardrobe?" ~ Name that movie! S. Siblings: Sister, Erin, Brother, Andy, Sister Michelle T. Time you wake up: 5:30 U. University attended: Rutgers V. Vegetables: Broccoli W. What makes you run late: Cheeks! X. X-rays you’ve had: Tons
Y. Yummy food you make: Dry rub ribs
Z. Zoo animal favorites: Pandas
Now it's your turn. Link back to me in the comments.
Don't get me wrong, I am sure he's a nice guy. He's an ok actor. I don't like his comedy routine.
First time I remember hearing about him was the year he hosted the MTV Movie Awards or Music Awards. One of those MTV Award shows. I watched. Fascinated by his hair. Disappointed in his jokes.
Did think he was funny in Despicable Me tho. Do you know the character he voiced? Oh I do!
Is there an actor/actress in Hollywood that you just don't get?
No trashing them as God forbid they have a google alert & read my blog. I don't want to hurt their feelings.
I just don't get RB's appeal. His wife...I get her appeal. I like her alot. Cute as a button.
They just remind me of an odd couple. But you know....God bless them.
Do you have dreams? Did you achieve your dreams? Are you living your dream?
From when I was a little girl, back in the dark ages, I wanted to be a teacher. I went to community college for a bit, then left to work full time. I took a class here & there. Finally to return, full time, to Rutgers University in 2003.
I graduated with a BA in English with an Elementary Ed. Cert for K-5. Oh that's right. This lovely state that I live in has given me a license to influence young minds. MUHAHAHAHA
Have no fear. I don't. Teach that is. I influence my children everyday.
While teaching was a dream, a lot happened immediately after I graduated. Some of you remember, some of you don't know at all. If you are interested, ask me & I will tell. Drop me a comment.
Perhaps my life is planned in other ways. I am a mommy, which was always a dream & I achieved it one year & 2 months after I graduated college. 10 days shy of the year anniversary of when I met Bobster.
That's it, do the math.
I am living my dream...minus the maid & chauffer. I get to be a mom.
As for being a teacher. I teach. I teach my kids in my actions, words and ways I conduct myself.
Yes, dreams do come true just not always in the conventional way.
Yes, everyone, I am the child of the Candy Man. It's true. My dad is Sammy Davis Jr. What? You are saying it can't be...why because I am a 6ft tall white girl with red hair & green eyes? Pa-shaw I say!
Seriously, my dad, the Grandpop is the Candy Man. At least that's how he is known to my coworkers.
Why is he known for that you ask? Well check him out:
Yep. That's the Grandpop. WE love him!
Do you know that once a week my dad has lunch with me & then on another day lunch with my sister? Tis true. He does. He pays for lunch & lets me keep the change...always.
Then when we leave he hands me anywhere from one to two shopping bags that are stocked with bite size milky ways, mustkateers, snickers & twix, Hershey's minatures, bars of chocolate, bags of Swedish Fish & either a box of Milk Duds or Whoppers that he buys for my one co-worke because those are her favorite.
If we do not go to lunch, my dad will make a surprise trip to my job to drop off the candy. Keep in mind I work about 30 minutes from home. My dad lives 5 minutes from house. Yet he gets in his Buick, treks up the highway & drops off the goods.
My coworkers know there is new candy on Wednesdays & if it isn't there, they will ask me if the Grandpop is "slacking in his candy duties". They have even given me coupons to pass along to him to help him with the cost.
My dad also calls every night to check up on the days events and see how his grandson did for the day. Not to mention all I have to do or my sister, is to pick out what we like on QVC, Amazon, Old Navy etc, email him the link & 9 times out of 10 he gets it for us. Score!
He's a good daddy & an even better Grandpop! Cheeks loves him.
So next time you happen upon my dad, sing him the diddy "Candyman" & watch him smile.
That's right everyone, Sister Wives premiered last night on TLC.
Can I say...Love this show!
They really are one big happy family.
Again, I will give my disclaimer....I am LDS, no my family doesn't practice polygamy...we are Mainstream Mormons...Cody & the girls are Fundamentalist Mormon...although Janelle was raised Mainstream.
With that being said, I think this show shows the family & their dynamic in a positive way. Really, there's not a lot of tension, the kids all seem well adjusted, as do the adults and they are supporting themselves without the help of the government. Which is more than I can say for some non-polygamist.
Where am I going with all this, besides to hawk the show? I'm trying to say...watch the show and that's it. As for judging them for polygamy...let it go. Are they harming anyone? No. Are they dealing drugs? guns? No. Are they out having murder & mayhem? Well last night they did do a little ice blocking (which I totally want to try!)
Cody is legally married to one of the girls...Meri. The other's he is married to thru the church. Big deal. Who cares? Is it a life style for me? No. Should the be left to their own devices and to go on living this way? Why not? No different than a wife & hubs who have an open marriage or do I dare say, swingers.
I just feel they are doing the show to get it out there that not all polygamists are no makeup, dress wearing, marry off the 13 year old girl to the 84 year old guy, cult like people. The Browns seem to be raising their children in a loving home with spirituality and kindness and um, again, they are supporting their children without state/fed help.
Can I get an AMEN? Hello? Amen? Anyone?
Well, let the flaming begin. It's ok if you disagree with me on my view of polygamy but really you can't disagree that this show is killer and you should at least check it out.
I thought the mouse that we had last year had moved on. Apparently, my pantry is the hot meeting spot.
Well I thought I'd out smart the little b*stard & I moved all my can goods into the pantry & all the bag & box stuff into the cabinets.
So what did he do? He got on that scooter up there & scooted his tushie to the top of my refrigerator, on top of my microwave & into the basket where I keep the bread & bagels.
Oh yea, he had a little midnight buffet last night. As if he was vacationing on Carnival.
This means war.
I will be setting a trap.
Please not inhumane remarks about the trap. Honestly, I feel mice are disposable animals. Do I want testing on them? No. But when mice decide to move in, uninvited, well, GAME ON!
Tell me, have you ever had unwanted guests? You know, like your in laws. Just sayin.
How to play. I will answer the following questions. Then you answer them either in the comments or on your blog. If you answer on your blog leave me a linky dinky in the comments.
Game on!
{one} do you always wear your seatbelt in the car? Yes. I feel like I am going to fall over if I don't.
{two} do you crack your knuckles? Ew! NO!
{three} what is your favorite flavor of gum? Bubble gum.
{four} what is your favorite piece of jewelry that you own? My ring
{five} who is your best friend? My mom & sister. Then the Kathy's & Megan.
{six} what is your favorite smell? A new baby...babies smell soooooo good!
{seven} what is your favorite lunch meat? Chicken roll but I never eat it. I am not a sandwich kinda gal.
{eight} do you still have your tonsils? Yes. Im missing my gallbladder & a few kidney stones tho.
{nine} do you untie your shoes before you take them off? I only have ties on my sneaks & no, I don't.
{ten} what color is your car? Light blue, just bought a new to us mini van. Go us!
Yep. That's me up there. Circa 1988. Like the bow on the shoulder...very tres chic. That's my friend Kathy. She is the one who set me up with Bobster. Love her! (Altho. after she see's this photo on my blog I don't know if she will be feelin the love back..ha)
Anyway, I have a confession to make.
I am not a player. No, I don't mean a playa, like Tiger Woods. I mean a player as in get on the floor & play.
Perhaps it's because I just do not relate to boy toys. I call Cheeks action figures dolls and when I do Oooh! He get's offended.
Don't get me wrong, I play with him. I do crafts with him. Read to him. You know all that good stuff BUT When it comes to pretending to blow things up or having the Hulk fight Abomination, my heart is just not in it.
I'd prefer a mild tea party, dress up or playing Barbi. Funny thing is, he has no interest.
He'd rather shoot a Nerf gun & pretend his Iron Man. Or tie me up, or wrestle.
Thank God for his father & brothers. They will wrestle with him & torment him to no end. Cheeks just goes back for more.
I'd rather bake a cake with the kid. He likes to help in the kitchen....I call him my little Bobby Flay.
Does your house look cleaner in the dim light or better yet, the dark?
When it's just the glow from the tv my house look immaculate. Seriously, looks like I slaved for hours.
Then the morning light hits. Like today. I was home a bit later than usual, looked over at the cable box/dvd player & noticed it looked a little grey. Yes. Dust. I can admit it.
The darn maid disappeared when I told her we couldn't afford to send her to the Caribbean this year. Ingrate!
I, of course, have been left with the cleaning. Sigh.
I saw the dust & Im gonna keep it real here. Know what I did? I got a paper towel & wiped it off. Just to give that fresh "for show" look.
Is that terrible? I have my reasons.
One: I live with boys. Naturally sloppy. Two: I haven't been feeling myself/well in a few weeks. Three: I was leaving for an appt. Four: I still didn't feel like doing the right way.
Did I just out myself as being an irresponsible duster? I like things neat & orderly. Let's be honest...the neater it looks, the cleaner it looks. Right? RIGHT?
Where my girls at? Whose with me?
Plus if I just keep the lights off & the shades drawn I live in a pristene home.
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